GOD!! DESTINEY!! Lets discuss...
We have visions on what we want to do and what we want to become in our lives. We have visions and our own thoughts about the kind of person we want to make friends (or a life partner!!) with.
These *perfect* partners/friends -- they just dont stumble on to our paths. Rather we are constantly meeting new people and weighing them on our internal scale and rejecting and getting along with then if they match our set expectations and cretirons.
If my DESTINY is to write software then i do not see how it will work on its own unless I WANT TO WRITE A SOFTWARE. This will happen only if i have a vision, selfdrive and selfmotivation to get things done.
No GOD can come and tell me how and what to do unless I WANT TO DO IT.